Monday, February 18, 2019


I would rather be an empath of a 'prayer' than an empath of a 'slayer'.
A victim (plaintiff- party 1) makes it easy for you (third party-party 3) to 'take back' or accept a bad person (defendant-party 2), because as you (3rd party) experience the victim’s (plaintiff-party 1) healing process with them, you (3rd party) feel forgiveness towards the bad person.
This is very deceptive and wrong. That is not only like betrayal, but it is cruel of you (3rd party).
It is as if the healing process makes the bystanders (3rd party) forget what happened, and not stand str9onger with the victim (plaintiff- party 1).
Doing so, you could (become) be called a devils advocate. Something a 3rd party should never become, because if so, you have lost your objectivity, not by caring more for the victim but by caring less, and by caring more for the offender.
It does not make you more trustworthy, by virtue of initially siding with the victim; if you start to feel euphoric (you didn’t suffer the victimization), and forgive the bad person, even if the victim starts to forgive, you are not being an effective advocate, if you are putting the victim at risk, when it is not your place as a third party, but the victim. Being thankful for recovery should not relate to understanding for the cause as it won't relate to justice or $dollars and cents for anyone.
Why? Because you may start to relate to the victimizer and defend them, instead of the victim. This betrayal will not make the victim's 'pain' go away faster or forever.
Thusly, the empath may appreciate not having to feel the suffering of the victim, so much so that they are thankful for the recovery, but are in a trap, if they feel empathy for the abuser. (which won't last long because they are a slayer of good feelings and acceptance is not their strong point.)
How far does a victim's advocate have to go? As far as a victimizer goes or would go, if they are advocating for theirself!? To even study law?
If you have no empathy for the victim, as you would yourself, you should disqualify yourself, but do not discourage them to give up or make the victim feel to blame, but admit that you are not qualified.
Don't tell them to ask for 'Archangel Michael's protection'. His earthly counterpart is probably the one doing it.
The victim will realize: You will still be somewhere else, his evil will still be here because you made promises to help defend and failed... Rather than stressing the urgency to get more support for the victim, not go lax on the offender(s) (whose numbers will grow BECAUSE OF YOU BEING A SOFTIE in crime, not tough on crime).
Save your empathy for and forgiveness for the victim for when they are upset about the abuse...
If you say you have to be an empath of a slayer, because all the world is a slayer, you are dead wrong, and have not been around much. Most of the world is not slayers, and we are in danger of overpopulation. We don't need slayers we need birth control.
If you say I would rather have a child (and slayers thinking they can kill and molest people to control the population) than be childless (no slayers controlling population of any species), you would be wrong.
Whatever you do, DO NOT DISPLACE THE BLAME, FOR THOSE WHO HURT YOU, ONTO THOSE WHO DIDNT! It is not an acceptable way to get relief!
I have a right to not be with someone who would change everything about themselves that I liked, to do everything I don't like...
Hacking as a part of a scam in collusion with medical freaks...

Don't send me your tired, your poor, your wretched or your wifey.

Though I may kindly empathize with you, I am most likely under no obligation to meet your expectations, esp.if it would hurt me. If that's good enough for me that's good enough for you, when you aren't paying or giving credit where credit is due or being supportive... Patience allows to go beyond the call if duty, not firce., but love. Love is patient, love is kind...

Sunday, February 3, 2019


Sunday, February 3, 2019
11:07 AM

The way of courage is being responsible for your actions.


If it is not in your plans, and you do it, because of opportunity, you can not be trusted, if you do things that are irresponsible (make negative choices).

With stress comes pain, wherefore of YOUR evil old ways interest rates are waning, and you will owe ME.

It is still not too late to repent and publicly apologize and heal my feelings.

If you did it once, protected by the crowd, when no one needed you to, you claim it as your way... Such is conspiracy...

If you did it, as the only one, more than once, you claim it as your way. If it was only once or a reasonable trial period, you don't have tok claim it. (But don't assume you were the only one, because you would have a hard time proving that you weren't conspirinvg.)

When you shouldn't do unto others as they do unto you, it is bad what they do. When they do unto others as others do unto them, but not the others that did it to them, they are displacing blame, because they KNOW IT IS WRONG, and it is not going forward with the 'courage of perfection'.


Causing others stress is 'acting gross'. This acting gross as a habit, or in concert with others, may not be a crime, but it is a tort and can be a symptom of crime.


*when being listened to, making others gross or trip up.

*behavior is thoughtless rude and or socially unacceptable.

*misplace the blame, because they KNOW IT IS WRONG, and not going forward with the 'courage of perfection'.

You could call yourself a doctor but not abide by the principles of a healer 'to do no harm', such as the sounds coming from your location.  


NaturalHealingVibes (@NaturalHlrVibes)


Personal intent (to hurt the one suing) does not need to be established, only that it was purposeful.

Setting a bad example,

 and not teaching others who look to you for support, that it is wrong, only subjects all of you to… Joint and several liability

Sunday, December 30, 2018


In your life, you may make small mistakes, or sometimes a big mistake, whether from ignorance, not being prepared, bad choices, that weren’t well thought out, at least by you, etc., but you should not let the mistakes you have made, become indicative of your life, as a whole, when you can change, and be ….          Wholistically well.

People do change and should be allowed to or accepted for the changes they have made. Even though you might not be able to make up for the mistakes you have made, all the way, you can not make them anymore.  

If anyone has a problem with acceptance of you, after you have a made a mistake, they may need to take a look at their own life, and the mistakes they have made, and got forgiven for. 

Forgiveness and correction does not mean
·         you can keep on making mistakes, esp. the same ones, or
·         Not make an effort to live better, of your own fruition.

For instance, you may clean your house, and at first it is trial and error, but you may learn to do a good job, with experience and not make the same mistakes, through the effort to be better at it.  You may also get products to use, causing a change in how you do the work, being easier, more efficient, and more error free, or less hard on you, so you are less likely to make a mistake.  You may not want to go through the correction process again at least of that mistake, or you may want the correction to hold tight and be worth it, less taxing on you to do the job, etc...

So, why should someone say,

·         that person does not clean their house good, when…. have they been their lately, been with you while you were cleaning?  
o       It is not hard to see how this can relate to people holding grudges and not forgiving, when clearly, it is not the fault of the person they are holding it against. 
o       Maybe the person who is holding the grudge launched a whole career or campaign, based on the person’s fault, so you can see how they clearly have no life.
o       To hold the past against someone, whom you may not have discussed your issue with them, and if something bad results, to them, you might have to hold yourself to blame, and get the same treatment likewise, for having a narrow mind.

That may also apply to someone whom they may call crazy or disabled in some way.  The person could have changed, gone through a lot of therapy, on their own, or sought help, and made miraculous strides, taken up natural therapies that worked wonders in detoxing their system including their mind.
·         Or to treat someone, as if they are still a baby and have learned nothing, have no mind of their own, or cannot think for their self or as good as you, or even better, in a good way, can really limit you having a positive relationship with them.
·         Or to unfairly critique someone, who clearly has a lot less advantages than you, on the same level as you, would not be entirely fair, not considering all the disadvantages they may have, as well as your lack of support, and really may make you look like a bad person.
o       For instance, one person is given a lot of trash and expected to make a home with it, while the other person is given an unlimited supply of credit and brand new resources…. What basis are you going to make your judgment? If you judge them on their cleanliness, you may have to take into consideration, all the disadvantages the person is having, who is given trash, of remaking the trash, like recycling it, and compare them to someone in the white house? 
o       How would you like it if someone trying to judge you, by the lack of support you are given, next to someone who has been given everything they could ask for, support wise, job, mate, family, nice home, credit, education, supportive friends, etc.?

If they think they are assigned to you or are looking for some free pass, then they should be careful and treat you with respect, no matter what you have, and not judge you, on hearsay, without a fair trial.  Even then, a person can be being judged on only one thing that you might have already changed, so are they wasting their time? Yours?  By putting you in judgment? Or are you judgment them, trying to get them to unpin you from a judgment they are trying to get rich off of?

Do you think that rash or unfair judgments will hold them captive in that state? If so, then that does not say much for you, as a friend, past, present, or future.  Do you think it will make them not want to change, or give up on change, if the know it will make you mad, or just put them always on the defensive?  All very bad reasons to hold someone in unfair judgment, and why that labels can sometimes cause lawsuits of libel and slander.

Bullies may thrive on judgment to be able to punish you, but you have the power to change, more than they have the right to punish, as they wallow in their own sins. whoever is saving them, is saving the wrong one, if they are not going to change faster than what they are.

So, you can change, sometimes very easily, other times, only time will tell, but at least you can make the most of what you have. 

God is not finished with you yet.

Tuesday, July 10, 2018

Podcast for ElitelyStaying in Touch

Podbean Introducing issues on natural health from a legal standpoint. Unedited counseling.
I love to play it...

Wednesday, June 14, 2017

Promoting violence vs. promoting peace

You cannot have it both ways.

If you are doing any kind of presentation for the pubic, it should not be allowed to have any violence whatsoever, unless it is for the intention to prevent violence, and only at a bare minimum...

*No agendas for revenge and making the public feel your pain.

*No agendas trying to show the reality, with no intention to show prevention or make public awareness head in the right direction.

*No proving that it goes on and that there is a desperate need for stress relief when it is already a given, if you are not providing stress relief free for the stress you cause. (even in an effort to prove it is needed)

*No trying to prove you are too mean for someone to hurt you, and that you will be the last one standing, because if you hurt enough people, you will not be standing longer than them.

Otherwise, you are just embarrassing yourself.

(If you were meant to be a leader in preventing violence, you would show you have done some relevant research and stand out as better than violence itself.)


Saturday, May 6, 2017

Living by plants alone

Powered by plants- don't expect someone powered by plants to be doing it for you, if you refuse to try to be powered by plants. Do not act all hurt jealous and mad either, when could have devoted those energies to be joinable as one also powered by plants. Don't expect to be invited or welcome if insulting that way as I should give up something too good for you!

If you are not doing things for mean vain or stupid things you might be being above reproach and cannot be humiliated or embarrassed by what you say and do.

Avoid fads (and getting burned) and stay grounded with a plant based diet! Then you won't have to worry about keeping up with the times, the times will be worried about keeping up with you!

What is the truth? LIFE IS THE TRUTH. Better appreciate it and get to know it!!!! A burnt offering (meat, death) is NOT A LOVE OFFEEING.

Hebrews 10:4  For it is not possible that the blood of bulls and of goats should take away sins.
Christ's Sacrifice Is Once for All.

A VEGAN RESCUE MISSION-powered by plants clothing I

Tuesday, January 24, 2017

Adaptation and Coping Beyond Victimization

You cannot blame the whole world for the sins (sons) of a few.

You cannot live in the past and do what you need to do in the future, to keep up, or to live with the new technology, and still do things the same old way, and get the benefits of the new age. If you constantly complain about the past and relive negative things, you will get way behind everyone else. Plus you should focus on recovery, and things that bring it, not opening old wounds.

You may crave justice, but without recovery there is no justice. Recovery can mean relaying the story briefly, but only when you can afford a positive solution. (like simple justice?)

Live in the hope of the good that will come naturally, and be thankful for all you have now, not comparing yourself to what others have.

Do not dwell on end times as it won't put a smile on your face, that we want to see.

Ⓥ Politics you have to understand the gist of a point someone is trying to make, to LIKE it, much less agree with it.

Embrace your youth by embracing your age.

Adaptation Ⓥ Peace Stop the insanity, mind your own business, stop committing fraud identity on internet, to steal someone else's job.

Grow peace and love in everything you do, not just some plan for escape.